sex , distance and keeping it connected

Whilst riding the F train in New York City, my beloved and I were talking about how we could lock eyes and tighten our sex muscles (engage mula bandha for you yoga savvy folk) and it was like we were partaking in some sexual romp unbeknown to all other subway passengers. We would inhale and tighten, feel the sexual energy, focus on bringing it up to our third eye and exhale slow, releasing the loving grip.
It made for an extremely sensual and intimate train ride.

I am a couple thousand miles away from him at the moment and miss him...a lot.
I find that in those times that we are separated it brings some solace to the distance if i find a time to connect to him, sexually, energetically and intimately. instead of locking eyes with him i can close my eyes and direct my gaze toward the middle of my brow, the third eye point and take a few breaths, pulling up on my sex and letting the energy swirl around..imaging his energy, his sex intermingling with mine all throughout my body, my spine.
So I offer that to anyone who, like me, is away from their partner and misses them like crazy.
Be well and enjoy!

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